Lifeisannoying’s Weblog

 it is perfectly reasonable to say so, i believe that it is the truth. yes money drives lots of things but sex helps it sell.

sex is so deeply rooted inside of us all that when  any matter truely sexual  comes to the surface we all appear so shocked. for centuries people have pondered it, what constituted normal sexual mores, what we percieve as deviant was once acceptable and what seems normal now was seen as deviant.

it is that  whole issue of what constitutes deviancy, that has caused people to be supressed socially, mentally and physically.

even assexuality is a form of sexaulity, it exists only in  opposition of what sexuality and sensuality is. simple desires that we probably would not ascribe to sexuality are in fact very sexual. some women are so shy of admitting to their own sexaulity they claim that their desire is infact just “liking” i know a woman who  adores chris brown (r’n'b singer) she just likes him, of course she always makes sure that everyone knows “oh, nooo! NOT IN THAT WAY”  she likes  him and presumes he is perfect in every way, however she hates r’n'b and cannot stand anything remotely pop , she finds indie much more  intellectual. what  i cannot fathom is why is he so perfect if it isn’t a physical attraction, she does not follow his music ( she finds it insipid). she looks at his perfect form and  watches him dance with the mute on but cannot admit to herself or others that it is a desire she feels.

lots of women are brought up feeling that desire or sexual longing is the preserve of men.  they are also often filled with garbage that women are perfect dolls to be admired, never touched but by one hand and that is a hand of her man, and never her own.

How ridiculous, nonsense as if sexuality was only the preserve of the male side of humanity humanity would soon be snuffed out. nightly the beds of hetrosexual britain are bounced of the command and at the will of the women-folk.  and i’d also like to point out for the sake of equality that the beds of homosexual britain are probably bounced hourly on the command of women ( in the lesbian camp) and men ( for the gay camp, and not so camp)

 why is sex such a huge issue, well because , most people think it is special and be reserved for marital partners only. i believe sex is special and i only have it with men that i love ( or that have been so incredible to me) so that is only 3 so far. when  i make love, it is a gift i have opened my heart ( and my legs to you) i feel a special bond with you, now the abstinence posse will probably say ” well gee…” (american speech) ” why did you not choose to remain a virgin till your wedding night?” well let me answer, sure it is a lovely idea, when i was ten it seemed feasable. but  as i got older i realised something, my aunt a beautiful vivacious woman was not married, she was a barrel of laughs and never had a partner ( she is straight before you ask.) now  if i waited there was the small change that i would never experiance the joy of sex.

reason two,  when all the other women in the world are giving away their love like free wine who is waiting to pay for yours, really now? i live in a sedate country but english women ( regardless of race or religion)  like sex and happily dispense it  at leisure, sex is a competitive market and more stable than the stock markets, so if you are not on the that market and everyone else is, you will never make a profit. As a young virgin at 19 i looked at the world around me, everyone else was a seasoned old pro, boys never looked my way because other young women held the paradise of sexual satisfaction only a cats- tease away. i was a virgin but not by choice, the longer i left it the harder it would be.     

  reason three , when a woman looses her virginity it is horrendously bloody, i being a modest sort would hate for a man that i loved to see me that way. (seriously when i have my period i stay at home and avoid everyone socially, i get a fat tummy, i get dry skin, my skin goes a horrible shade that just screams ” suffering heavy blood loss!”  my boyfriends have never even held my hand at that time of month. i dislike the thought of blood interupting a night of marital bliss.

reason 4  this is not disney -world of fairy tales, you test drive your man, had i waited and discovered my man, rough beyond reason,  or  a sexual devient who could only be aroused by vomiting ,defecation or even worse menstruation.

reason five marriage is not based on sex alone, marriage is all about love , companionship, friendship, shared interests and mutual understanding, not i want to have sex. sure sexual attraction should pay a part  but of marriage it should not be the be all and end all.

just for fun here are a few lists

used to be considered as deviant.. now normal

Homosexuality (excepting ancient greece…. greek love, an island named saphos!)

Spanking

sodomy ( favourite of  ancient greece and legendary cities of sodom and gommorah)

sex in the “doggy” position ( distained by english missionaries who practiced missionary)

 Things now considered  deviant that were not considered deviant in the past.

Pedophilia (caligula emperor of ancient rome had infants do unspeakable things.

things that have always been deviant

beastiality

necrophilia (sex with corpses, unfortunatley not a criminal offense, you will be jailed for damging morgues and coffins though)

bloodsports ( menstraution fetishes)

skat ( vomiting fetishes)

poop fetishes ( i mean shit not fart)

Things  lifeisannoying thinks should be considered devient now and until the end of time.

pedophilia

beastilality

necrophilia

 that poop fetish.

rimming ( sorry it just so nasty even if you wash , yuk!)