why black women appear to be scowling.
Now , let me lay it on the line. Someone asked me why is it that at the end of the day black women always appear to be extra angry.
Well i was impressed by the honsety of my anonomous a- hole. so i decided to clear it up. Let me tell you why.
As soon as you stand up for yourself, and you are being firm and polite, some people get threatened and say “why are you shouting” and of course you will be shocked, you may reply ” i am not shouting, i am simply trying to say while i respect what you have to say.. i think..” you sometimes recieve ” calm down”. please bear in mind that you have not raised your voice or done anything threatening.
You start to question yourself slightly judging on their reaction ( was i shouting?) then you realise that no you were not and are not shouting. you try and proceed and this is where it gets nasty . “Actually i am not shouting i just wish to put my point across..” then the ultimate insult ” oh my god black women just can’t keep their mouths shut…..” what i hate about that one is, i ( or all of my lovely sisters) have just damned the whole of black womanhood. You did not choose to say
“oh my god LIFEISANNOYING just can’t keep her mouth shut.” you choose to insult me by insulting every black woman on earth, even Naomi campbell you better hope she doesn’t know where you are. Insult women you don’t know, my sweet mother, my darling granny,my sweet little sister, my aunts,my cousin’s , my unborn daughters ( not even pregnant but you just insulted the concept). The black women i don’t know the good and bad.
We are varied and as complex as everyone else and they are my sisters. I love them even when no one else does, disparaging them because you dislike me having an intelligent arguements.
this has to stop, i do not damn black manhood, white man/womanhood, nor any varity of asian man/ womanhood. so please do not use my sisters as your sh177ing point where you just dump on all your prejudices.
we get trampled by everyone that is why we scowl and get upset. at least when stupid people insult white women who threaten them they go to the intellectual point of calling them “feminists“
it’s twisted for all us women, but think about what you say before you ruin my day.
No wonder we have high blood pressure.