THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY…PART TWO
Well i have been proved right folks. my previous post on this topic ( just read it) has been proved right. I mentioned soulja boy ( illiterate bastard) i then had no idea what his nonsensical lyrics meant. I knew that “superman that hoe” sounded bloody stupid and he was only seventeen and as an american should be school ( not chatting fart internationally).
So yesterday i picked up “The voice” newspaper one of the uk’s few black newspapers. the headline reads ” outrage over teenagers seedy sex song……SICK!” so i bought it. the idotic phrase “superman that hoe” means to ejeculate onto a womans black without her consent.
HMM…… all you people who were carrying dancing to this song how does it feel? cranking that? Those idots who let their children do that? Just conding rape? YES YOU DID!!!! remeber WITHOUT HER CONSENT that is rape, even though their is no penetration a sexual act is being performed (on a woman) without her consent.
You can plead that you did not know, that’s fine. I did not know but i still found the words suspicious and thus did not like the song. The boy is arrongant here he is quoted Also in ” the voice” newspaper “I don’t care. I got money. I don’t give a damn what they say. I’m straight.” SON OF A BITCH!!!!!!! No i am not being harsh i believe that, his mother is the worst skankiest prostitute and his father must be the same. They both have to hold their heads in shame.
IF my sister sang this kind of horrific filth, i would beat her, then disown her publicly. How must it feel that your seventeen year old is promoting rape. or the actual act is called flashing here in the uk.Masterbating in order to ejeculate on an unsuspecting woman. It is a criminal offense, it is illegal.
I hate the bastard. i don’t condone what he says but i hope somebody supermans on his mouth when he is sleeping. sorry he deserves to realise how horrible he is. that is the only way.
lets kick that filthy bastard into touch. if he performs in your area throw used condoms or other items that are soiled with bodily waste at him. better still just beat him up.
Thanks for listening!
why black women appear to be scowling.
Now , let me lay it on the line. Someone asked me why is it that at the end of the day black women always appear to be extra angry.
Well i was impressed by the honsety of my anonomous a- hole. so i decided to clear it up. Let me tell you why.
As soon as you stand up for yourself, and you are being firm and polite, some people get threatened and say “why are you shouting” and of course you will be shocked, you may reply ” i am not shouting, i am simply trying to say while i respect what you have to say.. i think..” you sometimes recieve ” calm down”. please bear in mind that you have not raised your voice or done anything threatening.
You start to question yourself slightly judging on their reaction ( was i shouting?) then you realise that no you were not and are not shouting. you try and proceed and this is where it gets nasty . “Actually i am not shouting i just wish to put my point across..” then the ultimate insult ” oh my god black women just can’t keep their mouths shut…..” what i hate about that one is, i ( or all of my lovely sisters) have just damned the whole of black womanhood. You did not choose to say
“oh my god LIFEISANNOYING just can’t keep her mouth shut.” you choose to insult me by insulting every black woman on earth, even Naomi campbell you better hope she doesn’t know where you are. Insult women you don’t know, my sweet mother, my darling granny,my sweet little sister, my aunts,my cousin’s , my unborn daughters ( not even pregnant but you just insulted the concept). The black women i don’t know the good and bad.
We are varied and as complex as everyone else and they are my sisters. I love them even when no one else does, disparaging them because you dislike me having an intelligent arguements.
this has to stop, i do not damn black manhood, white man/womanhood, nor any varity of asian man/ womanhood. so please do not use my sisters as your sh177ing point where you just dump on all your prejudices.
we get trampled by everyone that is why we scowl and get upset. at least when stupid people insult white women who threaten them they go to the intellectual point of calling them “feminists“
it’s twisted for all us women, but think about what you say before you ruin my day.
No wonder we have high blood pressure.
Why principles have just cost obama the election.
Obama, bless him. his speech was awe inspiring, only in America could he still have a shot after not denouncing his minister. In blighty he would be fried alive for siding or refusing to condemn someone, who is obviously a black firebrand. call me a cynical old ( not yet!) cow, you might be right but whenever i watch american politicians i always get a strong whiff of apple pie. Apple pie is not real life not even for the wealthy, but americans love their dream and obama’s lack of offence at this black man’s obviously pro black stance won’t wash out and smell of that familiar apple pie americana, white picket fence, dawson’s creek for the hate the dixie chicks crowd.
It’s a damn shame. I like the idea of the man. Mc Cain has it in the bag.
ps that was a whole new side of hillary i had never suspected was there. if she had run in 04′ she would have had a shot ( a strong one too!)
Let’s heal our community.
Here in freezing cold Blighty (great britain), we have been overwhelmed lately ( in the past 2 years), by the sudden rise in youth violence. Boom out of nowhere 14 and 15 year olds are being slain by their contemporaries, not by older harden career criminals but by baby faced adolescents.
one boy was 11 years old, one youth was murdered as he slept in his family home, one was knifed outside the school gates. Sometimes we are very quick to blame the victims, “were they somehow involved in violence, did they somehow provoke the murderer, why were they, where they were?”
none of the cases i have mentioned above had any link with violence, they were as innocenct as my print suggests. It is time to think about the ruthless fiends who commit these crimes, they are young teens, they do not live alone, they do not take care of themselves (come on they are 14, 15, 16, 17, can’t get a full time job or a council flat at that age.) they go home to families. You do see 40 strong crowds of adolescents hanging around occasionally ,sometimes it’s just them having high jinks, but after 9pm you have to ponder why the hell their parents do not have them at home.
Driving past with some mates the other day after a meal, when i saw about 26 (no word of a lie) young teens hanging around, it was 11.30 pm. They were young teens , i just had to wonder what kind of parents allow their kids (who should be in full time education) out at that time of night, they were brooding and even the huge security guards looked intimidated. they threw one boy into the centre and started kicking the Sh17 out of him. i wanted to stop the car. my friends were probably right to insist on driving past.
You have a responsibility when you become a parent to make sure your child is well behaved and mannerly, or at the least respectful of the law and common decency. If your child is used to not having any discipline, what can you expect ? the moment they come into contact with it they will not like it and subvert against it. they will get sucked into bad crowds and gain a mob mentality. Even then all is not lost.
A badly behaved child is like a dangerous dog that you keep. If it bit your mother , you know you have a problem doggy, but if you choose to ignore the problem and you let the dog out and some other dog, or god forbid person gets mauled, look into the situation, YOU allowed it to happen! Yes if your 13, 14,15,16,17 year old goes out after a reasonable hour and never gives you a destination and you suspect s/he is up to no good, YOU are the parent. YES ADULTS, are the parents, lock the door and if they get out, bolt up the door let them stay outside (this works in a cold country).
WE HAVE IT SO BACKWARDS, PARENTS SHOULD BE ABLE TO DISCIPLINE CHILDREN, IT IS NOT ABUSE.
PARENTS SHOULD BE FIRM BUT LOVING.
If i could not provide a destination of where exactley i was going, my parents would not let me go. I could never just get up and say “ok, i am going out” and just leave my home, it’s unacceptable parents have to know where their children are, god forbid there should be some disaster and you want your children, how are you to know they aren’t already dead if they left the home with a casual ” i’m out on road” .
What i also want to say , it is not a problem confined to single parents, i could mention a very middle class couple that (stupidly) left their precious children alone to go gallavanting. it’s crap parenting. If you make a decision ( or just had too much of good time) to have a child, it is for life and you not only have to think for yourself but for the children.
Let them call you every cuss word under the sun and argue all you like, because if you take the easy route it may be them who has ruined their life getting involved in these rampages. or worse still dead.
Why the hell….. are people this mean!!!!
good afternoon. While indulging in some light hearted celebrity gossip site, i was appauled by the behaviour of the posters on the site( which shall remain unnamed).
My black people, MY OWN BLACK PEOPLE!!! how we love to tear each other down. In essence the story was a positive one. one of fatherly love and care. A well known rapper was talking about his daughter and his love for her. how that he tells her that she is beautiful and how she should cherish her beautiful dark skin even if people disparage her for it. (sweet!)
In next to no time a barrage of people had posted , offensive to the maximum. saying how ugly she was and ” he is only saying that because his daughter turned out dark…” and “sorry she’s not pretty neither is his wife he must be talking about the other (light) women in his life”
” i take i liteskin gurl ove a dark un anyday” ” what kind of f0ck3ry is that? 2008 every body wake up. got to quote robert nester marley “Emancipate yourself from mental slavery” Far be it for me to question the african- american diaspora but as some of my family have married into your community i feel that i should feel concerned. Dissing children is unspeakably low, dissing children on their apparance is low, grown women can front it out, a child will absorb it and cry!
Concerned because they are my family and because my community and your community are brothers. This stupidity that has carved a hole in between what should be a close community, this shadism and colorism it is so damaging to us all.
let me fill the non- black community, the consequence of slavery colonialism and lots of Nutmegging (white male – black female/carib/indian/chinese) interacial procreation. To cut the story short the British empire was built and maintained by the “whiter, brighter,better” mentality. so the mixed raced offspring recieved a better life and oppertunity than their mothers of colour ( whichever colour that may have been). In those times making a artificial barrier between people who were black and those who were mixed and thus less black was beneficial.Having a lighter skin tone became a badge of honour, something by which to identify yourself and others such as yourselves as better than other people of colour. It was something aspirational it became valued by black people of all shades, it was the mark of being able to go places that a black skin and african hair would not allow.
my grandmother from a well to do black family in the caribbean in the 1940’s remembers this kind of life. she had it all she lived on a farm owned by her family nice clothes, relative wealth but she was brown , like an almond (shades lighter than me) and that was too dark to serve in the bank a respectable job, lucky for her she had her families wealth to fall on. she was just about acceptable to train as a nurse. beauty queens of her age were the colour of golden sand or if she was exceptional the colour of peanut butter. People did consider black women with all skin tones pretty (not beautiful) but, they were not praised and often would be given the harshest rebukes regarding their colour ( harsh enough to compare with any racist that i have encounted.) in the fifties she met my grandfather, they got engaged and came to england and were married.
Here in england it mattered not if you were nut brown or golden sand or as dark as chocolate, a wog was a wog, a n144er a n144er no matter how light or dark. The light skinned people who had had priveiledge before were horrified to be seen as the same old n144ers as the people they had held themselves above. the 1950’s were rough, after being invited by the government to help fill the jobs after the second world war, the black community were harassed, beaten up attacked and roughed up.
the 1960’s were worse, raising their children, and the children copped the racist abuse (i love you mummy!) grown men spitting at your children, calling them jungle bunnies. Things started happening in America (see african americans can do a power of good and you can do it again) and you guys wanted equal rights and we picked up the baton and we took to the street and got employment laws meaning that we could not be discriminated against on the grounds of race.(laws passed in the 70’s) . the birth of a pride in our blackness we all banded together and the ushering in of this new consciousness was the rastafari movement , reggae and pan africanism that has kept my community so safe and family orienated for so long.
by the time i arrive slap bang in the middle of the 80’s i am surrounded by the notion that black people are all black and beautiful or ugly on the virtue of how we really are not the shade of our skin, It took 40 years but we did it, us small island people how had moved across the world fought against prejudice ( our own and other’s) and hatred and hard times.
On my fathers side the family was a great deal poorer, they were peasant farmers and labourers. however many of my aunts have a very pale skin and amber eyes. one the elder ones sat down and had a serious heart to heart the other day. she is averagely attractive but she knew from when she was 14 that she was special and her skin was something that made her, she was snobby because the society allowed her to be. she had the choice of not being seen dead with a man with a dark complexion because her skin allowed her mobility above her impoverished homelife and the colour of her parents. she left for england. when she got here, she was just shocked, she was an outsider and she was helped out by the man who would become her husband, a man whose skin was as dark as ebony itself. she tried hard to rid herself of those attitudes and she admitted it took her until her brown children came along. she met up with an old school friend in 2002 and when the friend was introduced to my uncle the friend almost turned toes up and said “never in all my days would i have expected to see (insert name ) with a man like you i thought she wouldn’t be seen dead with a dark skinned man.” my aunt blushed because it was true. to my horror!
we have tried so hard to purge that kind of negative thinking, how can the diaspora hope to progres when fixated on such stupidity.
So i have to wonder how people from the same place as dubois, and malcolm x (nee little) and muhammud ali and all your various men and women of valour, COULD HAVE SUCH HICKS AS YOUR HEIRS. they are the inheritors of the civil rights and the emancipation.
the way they behave will have us all back in chains.our own mental chains, and if we are unlucky physical ones too.
If are a woman or a man, we must protect our young girls.
I am sorry if this subject matter irks you, but i have to speak out.
Female genital mutilation. It is not circumcision, it is damaging mutilation.
What it invovles can vary. some remove the clitoris only some remove the clitoris and labia minora (those are inside). the final and most damaging involves the removal of the labia majora, labia minora and the clitoris and the whole area is sewn up leaving only a tiny hole for menstralation, what forms in place of normal genitalia is a hardened scar tissue. many girls die from infections that may occur in such a delicate and blood rich area. Recovery can take many weeks.
When a woman who has been mutilated this way comes to perform any act of sexual intimacy ( often with their husbands) they may find penatration impossible , one report from a london hospital had a wife rushed in after her husband in frustration had cut open her scaring with a knife. When these women give birth it may be impossible, they push against sacr tissues, they may rupture or labour for days and still not give birth to their children. they may develop fistulas (hard fibrous growths inside the vagina), they may rupture their vaginal wall and colon, the two have been known to do that and it often leads to the women being cast out because of the rectal incontinence that occur. with their colon and vaginal wall ruptured these women are cast out and often cannot seek or recieve the medical care they require.
There is no religious text that supports this practice, if anyone tells you that there is a religious element in the practice they are lying. Not in the torah, bible or the koran. it is entirely cultral now i am all for people doing as they please but this is just one issue i cannot stand for. Thousands of women have this vile operation even here in England, where it is illegal. people take their young women back to the old country(wherever that may be) or the expensive private hospitals and have their daughters mutilated.
Some say, well boys are circumcised why not the girls, well because the female version can damage your life, it robs you of the pleasure you may derive of marital conjugal relations and prevents you from delivering children in the way nature intended.
For crying out loud… THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY!!!!
I have recently had a verbal altercation with a young caucasian woman. We were… no sorry she was exclaiming rather loudly that women like me made her sick. salty jealous … and on you get the drift.
she then called me a “duuty rass hole” i was aghast, horrified but she seemed to like the reaction . she then said i was a”bumbaclaat” and i was getting on her ratid nerves and she finished with
“rass me nah have time, fuh you pussycleet ways . you bloodclaat”
I was astounded, she looked pretty pleased, she was about to walk away truimphant, but i could not let that happen. “Excuse me miss thing, What was that?” she gave me this stupid grin and pouted. i was shaking my head. i had to tell her, so there in front of her little posse i calmly explained.
” You do not know the meaning of half the words you have just said.”
“rass meaning period, right so you just called me a bloody period-stained vagina.” her face fell she could help but go red with embaressment, so i continued.
“bumbaclaat is a blood clot, usually from a woman’s vagina, pussycleet means the same thing, as for bloodclaath that is a soiled sanitary towel. you are a bit rough aren’t you? What kind of self respecting woman knowingly goes around saying that?”
she looked sickened, i needed to show her up in front of the people that she had been showboating to only seconds before because it was the only way to get her to realise that what she was saying was so nasty and taboo they are the strongest and harshest cursewords availible in the caribbean venacular, so strong they do not have counterparts in standard english.
Then i got to thinking, she didn’t stumble on these words by accident, she did not invent them, she obviously heard them, but didn’t trouble herself to learn what they meant. I adore the sounds of shakira abre los ojos but i want to understand what it is that the men sing, it’s not spanish it may be a middle eastern tongue. i cannot really appreciate it full meaning, the men may be saying something i disapprove of (i doubt it, it’s a shakira song)they may be saying something offensive or maybe something that would enhance the songs meaning.
Now you may think , well it’s only words but words are important, that is how we communicate and respond to one and other.
Words i have hated recently in songs
“superman that ho” -WTF i mean what, why.
why isn’t soulja boy in school.
“lie down gal let me push it up”- Max romeo’s wet dream- so sick that is not sexy, it’s rough!
“shaped like a cola bottle” – just about every unimaginative rapper sings this one, dull dull dull.
“e’rybody get tipsy”- this would be party so i do not need instruction on how to get hammered.
Anything uttered by nonentity pliers (rapper, twat extrordinare)
so my point think about it
Whites were slaves too, but they won’t say it! « Charismaallover’s Weblog
Whites were slaves too, but they won’t say it! « Charismaallover’s Weblog
Well , this report grinds my gears. It really does! lately i have been hearing reports from the media, that black people should stop asking for reparations because white people were slaves in the west indies too. or you could be a Redleg. Redlegs were so named because of the crimson shade their skin turns in the sun.
Ah the redlegs, mostly irish but many english welsh and scots, some had been barbadoe’s which is a term coined for a custodial sentance that is to, sent them to the west indies for hard labour. Some were taken off the streets for vagrancy. some were sent away for being prostitutes and many especially the irish and scots highlanders, were send away from their homes because of the english imperial ambitions on their counries. there was also Indentured servants
Redlegs were often indentured, which means that they accepted a contract to work for a fixed term, where they were expected to work for example 4 years, they would recieve their money in installments, their spouses and children were not expected to work unless they were accepted upon their own contract. if you escaped and managed to run away or even better got onto a ship sailing elsewhere within the “british” empire you werehome free, whiteness was your badge of freedom.
Now if these people were caught aiding the black slaves, the balck slaves would be tortured and killed. the redlegs were given a hiding and then allowed to go on with their business. the case study for this in the 1600’s in barbados 20 black slaves hung and burnt at the stake , 10 irish indentured servants released, no punishment as they were “misguided”.
After your contract is complete you are free to become a land owner slaveholder or peasant farmer, if you are a white woman the possibilities are endless, white women are rare and thus your value is increase you can go from english street prostitute to lady of the plantation in no time at all. ( i may have upset a whole bunch of white west indians with money now) By virtue of their white skin they could stand in court and give evidence and they could not be punished without a trial.
Now the chances are if you had been barbadoe’d or accepted an indureship contract you knew what was going on and you knew what was likely to become of your life.If you were an igbo minding your own business and maybe going fishing and you were captured by some men and sold on over and over and had to sit in a fortress in your own excretement for months then get on a ship and lay in your excretement for months and then learn a new language and forget how to use your own and work until you die or are killed it seems an unfair comparison.
Now the media might say, you sold each other. We did not, there are many ethnic groups in africa and no person with half a pound of sense sells their own. now jsut because the people all looked black ( and there fore the same) to europeans it does not mean they were the same. No man took his wife and children to be sold, no woman sold her man to theives while he slept, no woman did away with her noisy children like that. if was capture others to be sold to avoid being sold yourself, it bred hatred and despair. you sell political disdents and prisoners of war, it was desperate. sell or be sold.
God knows what those poor people suffered and they lost absolutelt everything and they would have given their own foot to have half the rights of the indentured servants, they would have loved to have their families together, they would have loved the chance to be free after 4 or even 6 years( in the 1700’s the peak of the slave trade the life expectancy of a slave after delivery in the “new world” was 3-5years). they would have loved the chance to work for themselves even as peasant farmers.
So this White slave arguement holds no water with me. It’s rubbish
